You love scarves, but you’re never quite sure how to tie one so it feels like you. Especially if you usually wear white shirts, grey knitwear, and simple trousers, you might worry that adding a patterned accessory will disrupt your effortless style. But patterns don’t have to be bold, and ties don’t have to be complicated. With quieter colours and a comfortable drape, you can add a subtle layer of detail to your everyday look.
CANDiDé’s à moi collection uses pure white silk and graphite-grey strokes to depict an encounter between an orchid and a butterfly. This 90 × 90 cm square scarf, made from 100% pure mulberry silk, reveals a different expression with every fold and unfold. Here are five ways to tie a square scarf, from the office to dinner, to practice at your own pace.
à moi: Save a Little Time for Yourself
à moi feels like a quiet way of saying “this belongs to me.” The lines between white and grey leave space like an unfinished sketch, drawing the eye without relying on bold colours. Unfolded, you’ll see the orchid and butterfly; folded, the brushstrokes and sheen remain. It’s ideal for those who appreciate simplicity but care about the details.
A 90 cm square scarf offers more styling possibilities than a smaller size, but its drape will vary depending on how you fold it and your body shape. You don’t need to learn every style at once—just choose one way that feels comfortable.
1. The Most Casual Scarf Tie: A Wide Front Knot
Suitable for: The office and everyday commuting.
- Fold two opposite corners toward the centre, then fold again into a wide strip.
- Drape it around the back of your neck, letting both ends hang naturally down the front.
- Tie a loose knot below the neckline, adjusting it gently as it slides.
- Arrange the fabric so that the two ends retain their natural difference in length.
When wearing it with a white shirt, there’s no need to avoid matching colours. The contrast in textures between the whites, combined with the graphite-grey lines, creates clear definition. Don’t pull the knot tight—leave a little space for a more relaxed feel.
2. A Side Knot to Add a Touch to Knitwear
Suitable for: Work meetings and lunchtime gatherings.
- Fold the square scarf into a long strip, adjusting the width to suit your neckline.
- Drape it around your neck, making the two ends roughly equal in length.
- Cross the ends and tie a knot, then cross them again in the opposite direction and tie another knot.
- Move the knot to one side of your collarbone, making sure it feels comfortable when you turn or lower your head.
If there is too much fabric hanging down, fold it wider or lower the knot slightly. It pairs beautifully with light grey, navy, or beige knitwear for a quiet, cohesive colour palette.
3. A Front-Draped Triangle Scarf for Naturally Flowing Lines
Suitable for: Weekend walks, coffee shops, and short trips.
- Fold the scarf diagonally into a triangle.
- Place the point at your chest and bring both ends around to the back of your neck.
- Secure it at the back according to its length, or bring it to the front and tie a light, loose knot.
- Arrange the triangular fabric, leaving natural folds rather than pulling it completely flat.
If you want to see more of the orchid and butterfly pattern, fold it less; if there is too much fabric around the neckline, fold the long edge inward once. This style pairs well with solid-coloured tops, making the pattern the sole focus.
4. A Light Shoulder Drape for Dinner
Suitable for: Dinner dates, cultural events, and indoor gatherings.
- Fold the square scarf diagonally.
- Drape it lightly over your shoulders and bring both ends to the front.
- Adjust the coverage to your shoulder width, letting both sides fall naturally.
- If there is enough length, tie a loose knot; if it’s difficult to secure, simply let it drape naturally.
Use a simple dress or solid-coloured top as a base, letting the silk catch the light as you move. The amount of shoulder coverage varies depending on your body shape—there’s no need to pull the fabric tight to tie a knot.
5. A Handle Knot to Carry the Negative Space With You
Suitable for: Everyday outings and weekend lunches.
- Fold the square scarf into a long strip.
- Wrap it around the handle near the bottom.
- Secure it with a light knot and arrange the two hanging ends.
- Make sure the fabric does not touch the ground or get caught in zippers and hardware.
A 90 cm scarf may hang quite low, so always check it after tying. Avoid rough handles that may cause colour transfer; if the length is unsuitable, simply wear it around your neck instead—there’s no need to force it.
Pure Mulberry Silk and Wool: Choose According to Today’s Needs
A pure mulberry silk scarf is ideal when you want a light, lustrous finish and delicate lines around the neckline. If you prefer the warmth of a scarf for autumn and winter, explore pairing a wool square scarf with your outfits. Beyond the material, size, weave, and your personal tactile preferences will also affect how it feels to wear.
Before cleaning, check the care label for each style. If the silk can be washed, use the recommended detergent and cool water as instructed. Avoid rubbing, wringing, or soaking it for extended periods, and keep it out of direct sunlight. Wool can be aired out as needed; if it is washable, reshape it after washing and lay it flat to dry in the shade, following the care label. If the label requires professional cleaning, or if you are unsure how to treat a stain, leave it to a professional familiar with natural fibres.
Common Questions About Pure Mulberry Silk Scarves
How Do I Choose a Scarf Size?
If you prefer a delicate, small knot, start with a smaller size; if you want to try a triangle scarf, longer drape, or light shoulder drape, a 90 cm square scarf offers more versatility. You will still need to adjust it according to your body shape and how you fold it.
How Do I Wash a Mulberry Silk Scarf?
Follow the care label—not every scarf is suitable for washing at home. Do not rub stains vigorously; if you are unsure, ask a professional cleaner to assess it first.
Is a White Scarf Difficult to Style?
Start with a white shirt, grey knitwear, or a dark top. Let the graphite-grey pattern complement your other accessories to maintain a simple, cohesive look.
Who Is à moi a Good Gift for?
If you are looking for a scarf as a gift, consider someone who likes white and grey colour palettes, linear patterns, and larger square scarves. Before choosing, also think about the materials and uses she usually prefers.
Keep the Details You Love in Your Everyday Life
There is no single right way to tie a scarf. Let one knot be a little looser, let the fabric fall naturally, and wear it in a way that feels like you—that is more important than mastering complicated techniques.
Explore à moi, or discover the pure mulberry silk scarf collection and the wool square scarf collection. If you are unsure where to start, take the Find Yours Scarf Quiz to discover the scarf that best suits your lifestyle.